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My First Time – The Tattoo Itch Advice

As some of you know, I have 8 tattoos all together. I love them. I love the art, the passion and what they truly stand for. I have been reading up on the history of tattoos for a long time, purely for the art and the meaningful code within each design. I love to sit and look at tattooed ladies and gentlemen walking by me when I’m at my favourite cafe or bar, second guessing what each design may mean to that particular unknown individual. I sometimes pull out my little notebook and write silly paragraphs about this inspirational-imaginary-person. I have a friend who is covered from head to toe in tattoos and she is beautiful, so beautiful in fact, I sort of immortalised her in a manuscript as the main character. Each picture and script meant something to her, and it was due to her profound love of life and the lives past that influenced the way she lived, that she’d tribute parts of her skin to them. I think that sentiment goes for most people with tattoos.

I’ve only gotten work done, but I’d never give another person a tattoo… the needle would probably fall out of the machine and end up in someone’s foot. I love to doodle and draw up my own designs just to keep my drawing skills up to date. I’ve been lucky enough to have 2 old friends ask me for designs which they had done. I have yet to colour the 2 day of the dead skulls on my hips, but I’ll update you guys on that as soon as!

A few people ask me for advice on tattoos, which are cool, but as a collector and not an artist I can only go of what people have advised me, here’s a little checklist of what-not’s.

Before You Go for Your First (Wayyyyy before!)

Be Nerd! Plan Ahead!

Think about what it is you want done. I came up with keywords first before the design. I wanted something along the lines of spirituality, or at least what my spirituality means for me. I wanted something that wouldn’t necessarily be recognised, but it had to be something where a passerby would see it and know I was spiritual in some way. Most people love the Virgin Mary, so to symbolise their belief, heritage, goals or family/friends they have her done. Each design has to mean something, and you have to put a lot of planning into it. It took me a good few years to decide on the thought of ever getting a tattoo, and a few more on the design. I am a huge fan of Charmed, and as a practising pagan witch myself I figured I’d get something along the lines of witchcraft or at least spiritual balance. I also love yoga like a nut, so when viewers were introduced to Alyssa Milano’s latest tattoo, I knew I had to get a similar one.

Don’t ever walk into a tattoo shop without an idea! Don’t ever go into a shop and just pick a design of the wall. Most artists will just turn you away.

Remember tattoos are kind of like babies or marriage, you need to stand by it, so don’t make any mistakes.

 

Google them Dudes and Dudettes! – Search for artists

So you got the design and meaning in place? Great! Now search for artists. Ask around, look up links via Google, and make sure you see examples of their work. Some artists have specialised areas of interest. A shop can have one artist who works on portrait, another who does Japanese and tribal and another who only does black and grey. Make sure they show you artwork that suits the design you want.

 

Eating and The Experience

Eat something before, like a chocolate bar, as a tattoo isn’t pain free. Your body won’t be used to the pain and sometimes you can go into shock and your sugar levels will lower very quickly, as your body is trying to fit something that’s attacking it. Your body is an amazing machine! Don’t drink alcohol! And do your best to sit still.

If the artist talks to you, they are trying to encourage you to talk, as it has been seen as a great way to keep you ‘in this world’ rather than fainting. Some artists are really into their work that they don’t talk much and others believe it or not just don’t have great social skills.

 

Money Money Money!

Be prepared! Tattoos are not cheap! Depending on the size of the design, you may need to book several sessions, so make sure your calendar is flexible. One shop I’ve been to have this great idea in doing design outlines at the first sitting, then they give you 2 months to come back to get the design completed. I got all my day of the dead skulls done there. Are you of legal age?

Most importantly, make sure the tattoo is for you, unless it’s representing a thing, love or person in your life/heart. There are still a lot of people who are prejudice and very rude to people with tattoos. I get minor abuse on a daily basis from family members and their friends, but it doesn’t bother me, I don’t answer their questions on why I have them. I planned my tattoos, their placements and their meaning’s very carefully.

I’ve been looking at a pagan version of the Buddha for the past 3 years now, and I think now is the time to get it done with my sparrows.


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Kat Von D, Just Another Style Icon?

Kat Von D

What can I say? She is one of TVs biggest talents (on cable/satellite at least), but I’m not here to blog about her life or anything, just her fashion sense. She is super pretty, edgy and wild with a flare of girl underneath and I like that. She has managed to turn me into a clothes recycler! I sit and cut up old tops and feminise my old t-shirts and jackets. Though, where I live people tend to stare and ask a lot of questions so my editions are going top be kept under wraps until I fly out to the US again… (I miss you….)
She is someone I look to for fashion ideas, make up tips and she makes me feel proud to sport tattoos as a woman. She is covered! They are so detailed and they give her a very intriguing look, they support her personality and that’s fab.

What is it about tattooed women that either grates people, or attracts them? I have 8 tattoos, all of which are in places I can easily cover when at work, but I must say I feel great having them. They have sentimental meaning to me, and I have a few more planned. The sad thing is… I would love to meet someone who loved me for me (wink wink… I think I may have fingers crossed!), but I do feel annoyed at times when a guy says ‘Hell no, tattoo gotta go!’ Seriously? Jeez! This is the 21st Century, tattoos are part of life, get used to them!

Kat Von D is one of my style icons and I thank her for being so upfront and natural, the same goes for her friends and colleagues Pixie etc. I love it! Or at least I (secretly) love LA… I dunno…

Mwah!


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Carpe Diem

Well, I did say I was going to write about one experience concerning the saying Carpe Diem, so here goes!

(Its a boring story so don’t bother, otherwise read on!)

I was a little performer when I was a child, maybe because I’m a leo so being in the limelight was my thing. I just had to have the latest denim fashions, and I just had to be in every photograph that was taken, posing like an ant on steroids or E.

The first day my aunt and mother realised I’d be a handful was the age of two, when I ran across a main four lane road at the tender age of two. Nothing they could do, suppressed my ability to be a true wild child.

I started Brownies and performed a mock play of Hamlet for the Guides, and guess who I played?? On top of that I was analysing the play in my spare time (geek), the part suited me very well! This was the point in my life when I realised I really wanted to study the fine art of acting. I had various small roles in plays at school, but somehow the teachers left it to me to dress up; and dress up I did! I was inspired by the Gucci dresses shown for the New York fashion show 1996. So there I am come winter, the school christmas play, I was one of the three kings, the one who brought in the gold wearing a long dress and bedtime jacket with gold embroidery. I swear the teachers looked like they were going blind with shock. I fooled them alright for giving me a crap part! Ha!

So my acting flourished and got parts for Macbeth (me), The Merchant of Venice () and Romeo and Juliet (Mercucio). Ah my love for Shakespeare goes deep into my heart…. Definitely not an illusion! I did a few other plays with the local kids drama club. For my GCSE I performed a play called East, but for the love of me I can’t remember the authors name… Though it was set in Bethnal Green, I’m guessing in the 80s and the cast was to be played normally except for the mother who was known to be acted by a man, but guess who got that part and almost fucked up infront of the out of toen examiner?

Carpe Diem would pop into my head before I entered stage left or right. I would shit myself with nervousness (metaphorically speaking folks!) Butterflies would be doing more than just somersaults! My head would just start thinking, ‘Carpe Diem… Carpe Deim!’ And I’d soon calm down.

The adreniline rush I’d feel when doing something spontaneous or planned always leaves a huge lump in my throat. I think back to when my old headmistress said, ‘Go on Sharif, aim high! And remember, carpe diem.’

Why sit back and say, ‘oh I’d love to do that…’ Only never to bother. Don’t do that! If you want to sky dive, research and go and have fun. If you want to surf, then do it! Anything I want in life I go and get it, even if it takes a long time, I’m a determined mother fucker! You should be too :P

Cease the day!x


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New Tattoos!

Good Momma

I finally got around to getting my two day of the dead skulls in Candy style. One each for passed loved ones a man and girl, but so far the outline only. Here are the pictures! The detail is very nice, but I need to get the colour done and possibly have Carpe Diem in scroll between the two… But not sure.

Carpe Diem is a saying I heard back in lower school, and its stuck with me ever since. I’ll blog an event where I said it some other time, but for now, I bid you farewell and Carpe deim!

Evil Daddy

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